The other day I was extra early for one of my running groups. I’d gone to collect some train tickets on the way which left me sitting in the park for 10 minutes before my runners arrived.
There’s always a lot of park life to watch in Finsbury Park to keep me entertained: two old guys having a dance off; people having arguments; the fair setting up. Mostly, though, I watch the runners.
There’s a lot of runners out at the moment, which is great. Maybe they’ve been out and about all year (a few wore London Marathon shirts that suggest they have) or maybe they’ve been lured out by the nicer weather.
Some stride confidently round the park, up and down hills glancing at their watches. Other run less confidently, headphones on, phone often in their hand with eyes flicking back no forth between the two meters ahead of them and the time on the clock.
I wonder, as I sit in the park, what it would be like if I was them, if I was starting running now.
Running was hard for me when I started. I managed 1.14km on my first ever run (so hard was it that I wrote it down to two decimal places wanting to capture every step). I didn’t have friends who ran, so I soldiered on by myself, finding it hard but seeing a little progress.
Eight years ago, when I started out, the world of running was quite different. There was no Instagram then and Twitter was still catching on. There weren’t gym selfies or Strava segments. How would those things have affected me? If my Instagram steam showed an endless supply of smiling, happy runners, bounding up hills and not breaking a sweat. If all I saw was abs in gym mirrors, make-up unmoved by perspiration, medicine ball in hand?
How would I have felt when it seemed like the whole world could run except me who was still shuffling along towards that goal of 10 mins non-stop running? I post pictures myself, smiling away on a run, because often that’s how it makes me feel. But not every run is fun and not every run is easy. I try to show a balanced, less-than-perfect, messy view of running sometimes, because running is messy and hard as well as being fun and brilliant.
In some ways I think it’s harder to start running now, but in other ways it’s easier. There’s more races, more inclusivity and more groups aimed at those just starting out. I started my beginners group three years ago and have helped hundreds of women start or return to running, and mine isn’t the only one. I wanted to make it the sort of group that I’d have wanted when I was just starting out – a group of other beginners like me, willing to work hard and not wanting to be patronised.
However long we’ve been running, eight days or eight years, we all find running hard sometimes. And some days we don’t want to do it. It’s important to remember that, whether you’re just starting out or completing your 100th marathon, and we have a responsibility to show it.
This is a beautiful article. We all have to start somewhere and I remember my first run, 500metre and I was done. But now oftern my selfies are me smiling. Not sure what I would do without having running in my life x
Lisa Villaume | Where Women Dream Big + Master Their Careers
“And we have a responsibility to show it.”
We sure do. Running is really, really hard, as all sports are, and there’s not enough honesty on social media about this. I always tell the truth about my sporting endeavours, which, on my part, normally means telling embarrassing stories and admitting I’m terrified of getting in a lake etc. I’ve found that people respond to this the most—that they join in with words of support or admit that they’re scared/knackered too—and a connection is made. And, well, connection is everything, really, isn’t it? To know we’re all in this together…
Very true. I honestly never want to go back to those first weeks of counting down the seconds and building up to a 10 min run. For that reason alone I keep going and you are right some days it is hard and others ok. It’s never pretty and it’s nice to see people who reflect the reality of that. Well done Laura.
I started running maybe 3 years ago and I think it might be easier now – one of the things that really motivated me was reading blogs by people who had really busy lives, they had busy jobs or kids or whatever, but they still found time to go running and be fit. My main excuse was not having the time but I quickly realised through social media that it was a ridiculous excuse!! Also just seeing all those people doing it – a world of running selfies and gym pics – if all those people do it, it can’t be that strange a thing, why on earth can’t I?! I’m not sure I would have been able to keep going if I had started without the world of social media and all the support it brings!
We have parkrun too which has seen my Dad get back into running after 20 odd years off, a heart attack and triple heart bypass, my sister start running properly, my 4 year old DD also does parkrun. I sometimes push my almost 2yo round in the buggy. I’ve got countless friends and colleagues into running via parkrun – I know Bushy was around 10 years ago and my home run Basingstoke has been around 8 years but now there’s a parkrun on every street corner (I know, I exaggerate) and it’s getting people out running.
I’ve always run on and off but it was parkrun, Feb 2009, that got me properly hooked and I’ve never looked back. I found my running club a year later and now I’ve run marathons, ultras, all sorts. I love running, I can’t imagine life without it now 🙂
I’m currently injured and feel like I’m going to be starting from the beginning when I get back to it. your blog is so inspiring that you do take the good runs with the bad. I think its the good runs that make the bad runs bearable.
I have to say being injured has shown me how much I love running and how much I miss it 🙁